..续本文上一页to the other parts of the body. Think of it as going right through the pain. Many times a lot of the discomfort we feel around pain comes from tensing up around it, and the tensing up just makes things worse. So try to breathe through any tension you feel. Breathe right through the pain, all the way on out. Suppose there”s a pain in your hip or in your knee: Think of the breath going through the hip, through the knee, all the way out through the toes as you breathe in, and out into the air as you breathe out. As you approach the pain, try to maintain the same mental tone and feeling tone you had when focusing on the comfortable breath. Your primary frame of reference here should still be the breath. There”s no way you”re not going to notice the pain, but ask yourself, “How does the breath affect the pain
How does the pain affect the breath
” Always keep the breath in mind as your frame of reference. That gives you a handle on the pain. Otherwise if you jump right into the pain, you find yourself picking up the energy from the pain that puts you on edge. The first thing you”ll think will be: “Make the pain go away.” And then there”s even more impatience as you get involved in the past and the future of the pain.
But when you stay with the breath, you want to be as much with the present as possible. Don”t think about how long the pain has been there or how long it”s going to stay. Just, “What”s there right now
” That takes one huge burden off the mind right there. So as you go through the pain, make the thread of your awareness stay with the breath. That”s what you want to keep track of; that”s what you want to hold onto. Learn to relate to the pain through the breath rather than just butting up against the pain head-on.
Now, if you find that the pain just gets worse and worse and worse to the point where you can”t stand it, sit with it another five minutes and then change your position. In other words, push your limits a bit at a time and you”ll find that you get better and better at staying with the pain, more skillful in maintaining your frame of reference with the breath. As long as you really stay with the breath you”ll be okay. Slipping away from the breath is what creates the problems, because the mind then immediately creates stories about the pain, creates issues around the pain: “Why is this pain happening to me
” Or if it”s a physical pain that you know you caused: “Why did I do that
” All these questions—“How much longer is it going to last
Am I going to have this pain the rest of my life
”— just drop them right now. Stay with the breath. Deal immediately in the present, because the past and the future are not actually there. They are things the mind creates, and once they”re created they turn around and bite the mind. So try to stay with that thread of the breath as it goes through the pain.
Then you”ll begin to see why the Buddha focused on pain as the primary spiritual issue in our practice, for it teaches you so much about the mind. It”s like filming a documentary on the animals in the desert: If you go out and spend the day wandering around the desert, you”ll probably miss most of the animals. But if you set up your camera at a safe place near the water hole 24 hours a day, all of the animals in the area are going to have to come there. That”s where you get to film them all. It”s the same with the pain. If you focus steadily on the pain, you”ll see all the mind”s reactions around the pain. All its issues will come to the surface and congregate there.
At the same time, if you use the breath as your tool for dealing with the pain, those issues won”t totally overwhelm you. It”s like having a safe shelter to run to if the lions object to being filmed. You”ve got a safe place in the breath. You”re not totally at the mercy of the pain. You can pull out any time you want, and you”ve got a handle to deal with it. You”ve established a feeling tone around the whole body that holds the pain, not grasping onto it, but surrounding it with an energy, surrounding it with a space where you”re not threatened by it. Then you can deal with it. When you”re not threatened, you can really get into the present moment. If you find that you can”t yet handle it, you”ve got the breath to go back to. But when things get stable enough in the mind, clear enough in the mind so that you can handle it, then you really can start looking at the pain as your friend. You can get familiar enough with it so that ultimately you can understand it for what it truly is, so that ultimately it”s no longer a problem. Until that point, it”s always going to be a difficult friend, but if you start off on the right foot, using the breath as the basis of your friendship, you”ll find that you”re in a good position to make the friendship work.
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