..续本文上一页 you will want to make offerings to this Dharma Master. But as soon as you make offerings and create affinities, what happens

　　 This spiteful retribution is sowed. You say, "I make offerings to left-home people in order to plant good roots! How is it that the seeds of spiteful retribution have been sowed instead

　　" It”s because you are making offerings out of affection. You are fond of this person, and you want to please him so you make offerings to him. Consequently, although he was cultivating very hard, as soon as you have this false thought about him, what happens

　　 He doesn”t cultivate anymore! Because there is electricity which runs between people. Didn”t Gwo Jen just mention this

　　 It is just like negative electricity and positive electricity. You cannot see this negative and positive electricity, but once they are invisibly connected, the lamp will light up. What does the lighting up of the lamp represent

　　 The emergence of that false thought, which tells you that this girl is quite good-looking, very pretty, and that monk is also very handsome and attractive. Ah, as soon as this thought arises, what happens

　　 They start to draw near each other. When they come together, this monk is ruined. Perhaps you want to invite him to live alone in a hut, and you build a small temple for him. If he lives there by himself, it will certainly be all over for him. This is just sending him to his death! This is asking for his life! That”s why I first said that this is not a kind of love, but rather a kind of harm. It is mutually harmful.

　　I say that it”s wrong for men and women to be like this, but why are there are still so many people who want to get married

　　 As soon as they grow to the point that they have a little bit of awareness, girls want to find boyfriends, and boys want to pursue girlfriends. In the colleges now, if a college student doesn”t have a boyfriend or girlfriend, all the other students think that person is a freak. The trend is that bad. If you don”t use contraceptives, you”re also considered a freak. At this point, it really becomes ineffable and inexpressible! I cannot bear to continue talking about it.

　　The Morality of the World Is Declining Everyday

　　This is just how it is in the world now. Money and sex have confused people to the point that they can no longer tell east, west, south and north. Nor do they know the loftiness of the heavens and the greatness of the earth. They no longer care about their parents, and are self-opinionated. Do you believe this

　　 You ask, "Is it wrong to find a mate

　　" You have to follow the proper procedures. "Men marry at thirty, and maidens at twenty." These are the rules of propriety fixed by the sages of old. You cannot find a mate too early. If you have a mate when you”re still very young, it will be harmful to you. It”s just like harvesting and cutting the young sprouts before they have a chance to grow and ripen. When you take them back to thresh, they are ruined and unusable. Thus, "When a man and his wife dwell together, this is the greatest of moral obligations." This is the beginning of moral duty, "The way of a gentleman begins with the relationship of husband and wife." In seeking a spouse, one must respect one”s parents” arrangements and the matchmaker”s words. One cannot blindly search for a mate, and just get married, then have an argument and get porced. And after the porce, one looks for a second mate, and then a third one. This kind of situation continues on and on, without cease.

　　"The way of a gentleman begins with the relationship of husband and wife." If you are mutually kind and respectful, treating one another like guests, then your offspring will also surely be good children. If you and your spouse quarrel everyday, then your children will surely be proble…

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