心態 STATE OF MIND
第一四叁期, 在線慧訊娑婆塵影
楊钊 Author: Charles Yeung
Translated by Yuda Shyu & Peter Shyu
編者按:釋迦牟尼佛說法四十多年,主要是談如何離苦解脫、如何去除貪瞋癡、如何淨化心,主要是談心的問題。心態是心的表相,心態是心的導向,本篇作者楊先生,因爲「正面的心態」而使得他的企業有了正面的發展,此種「正面的心態」,相信也應該應用在家庭裏、在親朋間、在待人接物中,它是非常重要的!因爲我們都知道,人成則佛成,成佛須先成人。
人生成功重要的一環在于建立「正面的心態」。
An important link in the successful life lies in establishing “Positive Attitude”.
成功的人士,往往能學會用「正面的心態」去看問題。每一個人一定有其優點和缺點,成功的人士,往往能盡量發揮人們的優點,而回避他的缺點,其中包括自己。
Most of the time, successful people can learn how to use “Positive Attitude” to look into problems. Everybody has strong points and shortcomings. Successful people always try to bring people`s good points into play and avoid their own weak points.
所以「古之名訓」說,用人之道,但取其長,不計其短。如果一個團隊能建立這種思維,就能建立一支能幹的團隊。
There`s a saying in ancienttimes that the way to lead people is to exert his advantages and not to fusshis disadvantages. A capable team can be built up if this kind of thinking canbe established.
在日常的工作中和生活中,往往有「順境」與「逆境」。成功的人士,往往在「順境」中能「居安思危」,「晴天砍完下雨柴」。即天氣好的時候,要把下雨日子要砍的柴也完成,因爲下雨天,上山砍柴是很辛苦的,效果也是很差的。因此,當天氣好的時候,要多砍一些柴,往市場去賣,有些積蓄,當下雨的日子,在家休息也不至于「餓肚子」。
In our daily life, there areperiods of “favorable circumstances” and “adversity”. Successful people, during“favorable circumstances”, often do things like “prepare for danger in times ofpeace” and “chop extra wood in sunny days for rainy time”. In good weather, weneed to cut more wood than we need to cut in wet days, due to it being exhaustingand inefficient cutting wood in the mountain when it”s raining. So, we shouldchop and hack more wood in fine days to sell in the market and save the money, inorder not to “get hungry” even rest at home in bad weather.
而在「逆境」中,成功人士往往看成是「磨練」自己的好機會,古語雲:「生于憂患,死于安樂」,逆境往往令人奮發圖強,從而不斷上進,而安樂的日子往往令人沈醉,從而甘于安樂,不求進取,最終落後。
During “adversity”, successfulpeople like to treat it as a good opportunity to “train”themselves. An oldproverb says: “Thrive in calamity and perish in soft living”. Times ofadversity often makes people energetic, attempt to emulation and continue to make progress, yet soft living makes peopleindulging, addicted to peace and easiness, not seeking improvement, and will thenfall behind finally.
所以成功人士始終能用「正面的心態」去看問題,而失敗的人士往往是用「負面的心態」去看問題。
Therefore, successful peoplealways see things with “positive attitude” and people who fail most of thetime, see things with “negative attitude”.
「正面的心態」還包括從積極的方面去思考問題,從好的方面去看問題,挖掘事件的機會,並能利用事件的機會,時刻注意用這種態度去「調控」自己的心態。
“Positive attitude” alsoincludes considering problems from active and good directions, then search forthe opportunities and utilize them to adjust mindset with this attitude constantly.
「負面的心態」往往受過去種種失敗與疑慮所引導和支配,他們容易從壞的方面看問題,悲觀、消極,最終只能走向失敗。
“Negative attitude”, most ofthe time, is incurred and dominated by all kinds of failure and doubt in thepast. Those people tend to view problems from a bad aspect and then move towardfailure in the end due to pessimistic and passive attitudes.
「正面的心態」,包括「培養正確的思維模式」,「正確的思維模式」是一切從大局著想,而不是以「自我爲中心」,一切爲「公」著想而不是爲私打算,所想、所說、所行、都是「先利人,後利己」,時刻從對方角度去考慮問題;「易地而處」、「過得自己過得人」、「己所不欲,勿施于人」。處理問題時,盡量做到公平、公正,並盡量增加「透明度」、也就是「公開」。這樣,一個企業就能有凝聚力、就能團結、就能有競爭力、就能建立起一個良好的「小區式企業」。所以,「正確的思維模式」加上積極的進取,可以使一個企業獲得巨大的成功。
“Positive attitude” includes “cultivatingproper thinking pattern”. “Proper thinking pattern” is to think for the wholegeneral situation, not for oneself; for the public, not for private. What thosepeople think, speak, and act is all for others first, considering problems fromthe stand point of others every moment. They stand in other`s shoes, considerother`s opinion and they do not do to others what they would not like to do.
When they handle things, they do their best to make it fair, transparent andopen. In doing so, an enterprise will be able to have cohesion, solidarity, andcompetitive strength and then, create a fine “community-b…
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