第三章﹕悌
Chapter Three﹕ FRATERNITY
兄道友，弟道恭，兄弟睦，孝在中。
财物轻，怨何生，言语忍，忿自泯。
或饮食，或坐走，长者先，幼者后。
长呼人，即代叫，人不在，己先到。
称尊长，勿呼名，对尊长，勿见能。
路遇长，疾趋揖，长无言，退恭立。
骑下马，乘下车，过犹待，百步余。
长者立，幼勿坐，长者坐，命乃坐。
尊长前，声要低，低不闻，却非宜。
事诸父，如事父，事诸兄，如事兄。
事
| 诸
| 父
| ，
| 如
| 事
| 父
|
shi
| zhu
| fu
| ru
| shi
| fu
| |
侍奉
| =""> 伯父、叔父、舅父
| 如同
| 侍奉
| 父亲
| ||
to serve
| all uncles
| as
| to serve
| father
| ||
侍奉诸位伯叔舅父，如同侍奉自己的父亲一样恭敬。 We should serve all our uncles as respectfully as we serve our own fathers.
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事
| 诸
| 兄
| ，
| 如
| 事
| 兄
|
shi
| zhu
| xiong
| ru
| shi
| xiong
| |
侍奉
| 堂兄、表兄
| 如同
| 侍奉
| 哥哥
| ||
to serve
| all older cousins
| as
| to serve
| brother
| ||
对待各个堂表姻兄，如同对待自己的哥哥一样友爱。 We should be as friendly with our older cousins as we are with our own older brothers.
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有一对联语说得好﹕
天下无不是的父母，
无父母时方知；
世间最难得者弟兄 ，
有弟兄时不觉。
There is a couplet that says:
There is nothing in the world that does not come from parents;
we realize this only when we are without parents.
Brothers are the hardest to come by in the world.
But we don”t realize it when our brothers are around.
人伦肇始于父母，其次乃有兄弟师长，所以「孝悌」二者，斯为伦理教育的基础 。所谓「基」，是造屋的地基，要先奠定地基，房子才能够搭盖起来；础，是屋柱的盘石，若不立稳盘石，房子就容易倾斜崩坏。但孝悌二者，却又不是那么狭义，只顾自己的父母兄弟而已；我们还要把「孝」扩充到伯叔诸舅，甚至一切长辈上，把「悌」也扩充到堂表兄弟姐妹，甚至一切同辈晚辈上…
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