..续本文上一页tion. Once we have an aspiration of determined resolution, our mind won”t be in disarray. If our mind is not in disarray or confusion, our spirits will be settled and calm. If our spirits are settled and calm, we are able to be introspective or self-examining, and then gain benefits from it. In this way, we would be faithful to our aspiration, and we wouldn”t deceive ourselves, just like knowing that we hate bad odors, and love beautiful colors. Now that our mind is calm and settled, even when we are alone, we would still be very careful and mindful with our behavior.
财富可以用来装饰房屋，道德是用来修养身心。心胸广阔，身体就能舒坦了；因此，君子必须忠诚自己的意念，端立自己的心灵和心态，这就是说：「心里如果愤怒，思想就不能端正，不能合乎正道；心里有了恐惧，思想就不能端正，不能实事求是地处理问题，心里存在忧愁患难，思想就不能端正，不能客观地就事论事」。如果心灵不安，看东西，看不到问题的真实情形，听东西，听不到真实的声音，吃东西，也不知道它味道的好与坏。所以说，端正自己心灵和心态是很重要的。如果讲到治理企业，一定要先学会处理好自己的家庭，如果不能处理好自己家庭内的各方关系，反而能教好别人的，是没可能的事。所以，君子能够不出家门，便可以把他的教化推广至整个企业。道理是这样的：在家孝顺父母，在外就能事奉君主，在家恭敬兄长的，在外就能事奉上司和上级，在家慈爱子女和晚辈的，在外就能善待下属和民众。
Wealth can be used to decorate houses, while virtue is for cultivating body and mind. If we have an extensive heart, our body would be in comfort. Therefore, a noble man must be faithful to his own will, straighten his own mind and attitude, that is to say, “If the heart is full of anger, the thoughts wouldn”t be straight, and wouldn”t meet the righteous way. If the heart is full of fear, the thoughts wouldn”t be straight, and wouldn”t be able to follow the facts and deal with the problems. If the heart is in worry and suffering, the thoughts wouldn”t be straight, and wouldn”t be able to confine the discussion to the matter at issues objectively.” If the heart is unsettled when hearing things, we couldn”t see the real situation of the problems; when hearing things, we couldn”t hear the real voice. When eating food, we wouldn”t know if the taste is good or bad. Thus, to straighten one”s mind and attitude is very important. If we want to talk about governing an enterprise, we must learn how to deal with things within our family first. If we can”t deal with things and relationships from every side within our own family, it is not possible to teach others to do so. Therefore, even though a noble man stays at home, he still can extend his teachings to a whole enterprise. The reason is this: if he can show filial devotion to his parents at home, then he can serve his king or emperor outside of home; if he can respect his brothers at home, he can respect his boss and superior. If he can love his children and other younger generations, then he can be kind to his subordinates and the general public.
君子应该自己先有美德，然后要求别人具有同样的美德，自己没有恶习、缺点，然后才可以要求别人去除恶习和缺点。如果自己不讲求推己及人的恕道，而能够使人领略恕道的原理，是没有可能的。君子是有「处事待人的准则」，你讨厌上司的行为，就不会拿他的行为来对待下属，你讨厌下属的言行，就不会拿他的言行来对待上司，你讨厌前面的人行为，就不要拿他的行为来对待后面的人，你讨厌后面的人言行，就不要拿他的言行来对待前面的人，你讨厌右边的人言行，就不要拿他的言行来对待左边的人，你讨厌左边人的言行，就不要用来对待右边的人，这叫做「处事待人的准则」。君子必须首先慎重修养自己的品德，有了光明皎洁的品德，自然有民众支持，有了民众的支持，自然有国土，有了国土，自然有财富，有了财富，自然可以有所作为。
A noble man should have virtues by himself first, and then ask others to obtain the same virtues. When he himself has no bad habits and shortcomings, then he can ask others to be rid of their bad habits and shortcomings. If he doesn”t have magnanimity, and does not put himself in another”s position, it is not possible to let others understand the principle of magnanimity. A noble man has his principle of handling tasks and getting along with others. For example, if you hate your boss”s behavior, you wouldn”t adopt his behavior to treat your subordinates. If you hate the behavior of the person before you, then don”t adopt his speech and behavior to treat people behind you. If you hate the person on your right, then don”t adopt his speech and behavior to treat the person on your left. If you hate the person on your left, then don”t adopt his speech and behavior to treat the person on your right. This is called, the principle of handling tasks and getting along with others. A noble man must cultivate his own virtue carefully, when he himself owns bright and pure virtues, he will naturally gain the general public”s support. When he gains the general public”s support, he will naturally have his territory. When he has his territory, he will naturally have his wealth. With his wealth, he will naturally make a difference for his life.
「德」是根本，「财」是枝末，看轻根本而重视枝末，就会导致人民争利、劫夺。因此，聚敛财富，则民心离散，把财富分给人民，人民就会归来和聚集。
Virtue is the root, wealth is the branches. Value the branches but look down on the root, and you will cause people to fight for profit and commit robbery. Thus, collecting wealth would alienate people”s hearts; sharing wealth with people, people will return and join you.
因此，用违背情理的话去责备别人，别人也会用不合情理的话去回应；用不合情理的方法，获得财货，财货也会不合情理地丧失。只有讲仁义、修德行的人，才会喜欢好人，不喜欢坏人；君子有修己，治人的原则；必须忠诚，信实才能获得它，而轻视、傲慢，就会失掉它。
Therefore, blaming others with unreasonable speech, others would respond with unreasonable words. Using unreasonable methods to obtain fortune and goods, your fortune will be lost without any reason as well. Only the person who values benevolence and righteousness, and cultivates his virtue, would appreciate good people, and dislike bad people. A noble man has his principle of cultivating his own virtue and governing others. He must be faithful, true and honest in order to get it. If he belittles others and is proud, he will certainly lose it.
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